I'm using the de UR crank and wp pulleys. The crank pulley sits a little farther away from the motor because the VE oil pump spacer is longer than the DE, so the belts are missaligned a bit and will be noisy but not too bad. The water pump pulley fits fine. I have had the UR pulleys on my VE ever since I put it in two years ago and I have not had any problems.
I have had a stock VE pulley sitting in my room for a while now, I was going to pull my UR pulley off and take it and the stock VE pulley to a machine shop and have them take a little bit of material off the inside of my UR pulley so it sits closer to the motor, i just keep putting it off.
Top - VE spacer
Bottom - DE spacer