ok, sooooooooooooooo the problem was:
when my friend disconnected the starter to transfer it to the ve he accidently undid the nut on the other post .. so i put the lil wire thing back on an hooked it up.. no biggy right??
WRONG, i had it angled so that when i put the power wire on the starter it was touching that ground strap thing or whatever.. so as soon as i put power to the harness it grounded out..
so what happend was the ignition fuse blew..
what i did was took my multimeter and started popping fuses one by one, i took a wire and put it in the + of the battery an stuck it in one end of the fuse, while i took the ground on my multi meter an put it on the - of the battery then i just touched the + on the multimeter to the other end of the fuse, they were all fine, showin like 12.something volts.. till i got to the ignition one that is.. which only had 0.05 lol so right away i knew i'd found the problem.. i took the one from my se-r popped it in, she fired right up!
it was located in the little box between the battery an driver side fender.. so everyone knows..