@canx2k Good to hear AEM is open to helping with pinouts and any changes needed. If you can find the exact internal jumper(s) that need changing let me know! I have the 30-1080 box you listed above.
Unsure why the distributor needs to be modified since others on this forum have made it work without modification??
I already found spare plugs at the junkyard so making the patch shouldn't be much work. There are about 50 sentra ECU's at the local PAP here.
I have dropbox also so let me know when you get files up. I can offer what I have generated for my pinout changes although looks like we have different box's...
Walker