Yup, you need the torque member - I've not seen a "loaded" caliper without them, but it's worth checking. REAL hard to attach the caliper to the car without.
You have two choices for the splash guard - the thin stamped sheet that pretends to keep water and dust and whatever off the inside surface of the rotor -- you can either grind off some of the material so the larger caliper will fit, or just remove it. Most folks just toss it, and certainly for a track car that makes sense for increased air flow, but for a street car you may want to go to harbor freight or some such to get a cheap grinder, like
http://www.harborfreight.com/cpi/ctaf/displayitem.taf?Itemnumber=31309. Nissan didn't engineer that piece just for the fun of it.
Not sure if Matt Pound meant "it works just fine" about the bias, but if actual total decreased braking capacity is "just fine", that's your decision, of course. What I found on my application - fresh rebuild nx2k fronts, inexpensive aftermarket front rotors, fresh rebuild stock rear calipers with fresh rotors, and the now no longer to be had for loyalty to Matt Carbotech Bobcats all four, I found the nx2k fronts to be so much more powerful that the rears seemed to do virtually nothing - fronts locked up quickly and overall effectiveness actually decreased, hence the hunt for the nx2k mc with the correct bias valves. Many guys do the big rear rotors and calipers off the Maxima, but I've never been fond of blind faith when it comes to my neck, so I went for an engineered solution.
ps, I've crewed for true race cars (McLarens, Lolas, etc.) off and on for four decades. NOT ONE of the drivers of one of those cars would tolerate the half-assed crap that I read about being done on either this or the old site in the name of "looking sweet." Do lousy work on an engine and it's likely you'll only have to pull over to the side of the road and look stupid. Jack with brakes, tires, suspension with less than your best and you're somewhat likely to end up dead.