You replaced the o2 sensor and the thermostat at the same you. You will never truly know and neither will I. How did you know you were rich?
You can test your thermostat by putting it in water and warming the water up to the temp where it should open at.
Since you said you live in a cold weather area, the fuel economy always drops a little bit, probably not as much as you experience, but a little because they (gasoline manufacturers) put oxygen in the car to promote easier cold weather starting.
And, lastly, for the love of god, stop being so weird and adding stupid, pointless remarks. Such as your last one....
"so please let me know if I missed something since people on here think I know nothing about cars and am the sr20 dash thread red headed step child."
Well, I am asking questions and give you some feedback, hence the ENTIRE point of a forum, my newly self-promoted red headed step child. Sorry if you don't like it, it is a legit opinion and since you changed two things at once, you can only test the thermostat you took out.