canx2k I've looked at the wiring diagram and your "test" and I can tell you what you
should be experiencing. One (and only one) of the FICD pins on the plug should have continuity with the ECU ground. The other pin should have continuity with the bottom-left contact of the A/C relay (as shown in your picture).
As for which wire goes where on the FICD plug itself, I can only assume if
this picture is wired correctly then the bottom (black) wire is the pin that should have continuity with the ECU ground, and the top (purple) wire should have continuity with the bottom-left contact on the A/C relay. That's just through my experience with my own ECU harness. The [ECU] grounds are consistently black (even if the other colors aren't consistent).
Does that help any?