Heated that son of bish up with a torch for like 10 mins then when back at it and broke it loose, got it all in and back together, looks like the noise is gone! I still think i hear like the sound of a rotating bearing, kinda blend with the sound of my intake suction tho so I dunno i could be crazy. I tried to record it but all my phone picked up was wind. Anyway the grinding is gone and you cant hear anything really from in the car like you could. I'm gonna jack it up and let the wheel spin freely just to double check for sounds after my handy work, but so far looks like its fixed. Only a ball joint had to be ground off and replaced, but the boot was ripping on it anyway....thanks guys (i really need to get air tools though)
Heres a little aftermath picture of the new ball joint and axle happily back home