After doing my research, it looks like I'm just going to go with dynamat. Ive read about how other companies have just taken roof liner and renamed it as a sound deadener and priced it half as much as dynamat which makes it appealing to people like us because of the low price. The cheaper sound deadeners also have a tendency to melt in higher temperatures and cause a tar type smell which I dont want.
But dynamat is the only company out there that has trully went out, did their research and made a product that is designed for cars and made a product that is going to last hence the higher price. Since dynomat is more expensive than I anticipated spending, I'm going to be doing it in about a month in a half from now and for the time being will just live without sound deadening. But I will do a full write up for the people who are thinking about installing sound deadening.
As for weight, it wasn't really a concern for me but if it really starts adding a lot of unwanted weight, its nothing that a carbon fiber hood cant fix