Try to find a good used AEM, made for any other car on eBay. The stand-alone ECU's mostly work the same, from what I've read. They just mount the board with different connectors. Be sure not to get burned buying the 4 spark fuel controller, which sells for $400.00 new. It's not the same as the stand-alone and looks similar. Basically, the fuel injection unit is included in the stand-alone, so ask a bunch of the right questions before you buy anything.
The Honda boys are selling off AEM's like hot-cakes, sometimes at much less than half price.
Solder a cross-over connector between your harness and the Honda AEM,(or buy one from one of the guys who make them here on the forum), and your working with an AEM, on the cheap.
Probably feels great to own a Honda builder's ECU for dirt-cheap and convert it to a Nissan control unit; where it properly belongs