i may have found the problem, i pulled my distributor cap and looked at it a little more, becuase at first the first time i looked at the cap i was more interested in the rotor button.
but i looked at the distributor cap and noticed that there are 4 little pongs that stick out in the istributor that conducts the spark. well ther are only 2 of the little prngs sticking out in my distributor cap, and the other 2 look like they are sheered off?
http://www.trustmymechanic.com/parts_gallery/distributor_cap1jpg.jpg
^^^ those are the prongs im talking about that meet the rotor button that conduct spark