Ahh, lol. It turned out to be that I was running the wrong cams. They were cams designed for the factory hydraulic lifters (which can be more aggressive due to the "give" in the lifters). I knew this which is why I ordered solid lifter cams originally... but was shipped hydraulic lifter cams and never knew about it. Which is why I was chasing my tail for YEARS trying to figure out what the heck was wrong with my setup, lol. I finally broke down, bought a new set of cams, and voila! Quiet as a mouse. She runs great now, and is even quieter than factory (other than the exhaust/intake). Make sure your friend has the right cams, they need to be designed for solid lifters! You can't run stock cams (except GTiR ones).