ok I was able to put in some minutes while it wasn't raining and I got the bov recirc thing situated, ended up using a ga16 lower rad hose, with minor trimming it fit "ok" I will get pics later, or tomorrow.
I also moved the pipe the bov recirc goes on a little to get it to seal better. So far its idling just like it did when it was n/a.. At least in the parking lot without really going on a drive.. I'm sure with a short drive it will idle just as good as before still.
I think I need to adjust the bov though to loosen it up, when I rev it to hear the bov it doesn't really make a psshhh sound, it makes a ch ch ch ch sound, which I believe is compressor surge. It's a really light faint ch ch ch but still I'm gonna soften the bov up to see if it helps.
I also worked on a tune last night that I think should work ok till I get it on the dyno, just need to get the afr's dialed in.