I don't get any intake backfires (that I've noticed), but my car runs like complete crap until it warms up just a hair. Once the needle starts moving its fine, but until then I have no power until about 3k. I have a Calum basic and I am 4bar, but I had it when I was 3bar as well.
If turning your distributor further advanced improves it, then I would just bump up your timing on the Timing Advance - Normal table (assuming its named the same thing on the B14 XDF). That is interesting though that it helped, I may have to try this on my car tomorrow...
Knowing that that part of the map is controllable, that is probably the difference in those ECU's. Your Calum tune may have a bit more timing advance vs water temp in the colder areas. They all level out once they are warm because there should be no additional advance once fully warm.