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Once again, I am not for or against either party but merely trying to pool more information together. I think this may be a waste of my own time but my goals are simply to help collate all information to one thread to help both parties achieve a positive resolution.
I didn't edit any information though, I just closed it. Also don't see how that breaks a rule as the first thread was closed, the second was created weeks later for the same item yes, but a totally different sale and I even listed the location as Pomona, CA which is where he lives and requested local pickup. When it didn't sell within a week he started going nuts again, again I was just trying to help him out. He wouldn't even take 30 seconds to make the thread himself. I'm pretty sure his mind was made up from the get-go. Now according to Paypal he has to spend $130 or whatever to ship the thing back. And I was also in South Carolina for the last 2 weeks and just returned a few days ago, not that matters, but as some of you know I'm basically living in a hotel these days back up in PA because of whats going on at home, and it's day to day for me. He didn't seem to care when I said that a dent in his header is not #1 priority at the moment, I was on the phone with UPS 4-5 separate times for sometimes as long as an hour when they lost the package for 2 days, I did everything I could. If I felt I did anything wrong I wouldn't be posting in this thread, I'd just not sign on the forum like chapnutz or whatever does. From what I've seen, being that I have undergrad and graduate degrees in psychological science (not that that makes me an expert or anything but I know some) - he has some type of paranoid personality disorder. The first time I really knew this wasn't going to end well was when he accused me of scamming him at the UPS store to pocket the difference in fake vs. actual shipping costs, I believe he thought I was pocketing the difference, when the reality was it ended up costing me $24 of my own money and I told him not to worry about it. Sigh