This was sent to benfenner to clue him in on what was going May 3rd 2014:
Ben here is what I wanted to send in a message privqtly but posted and had to ninja edit out. Please consider it and feel free to send to mods but for the moment please don't post Amy of it until I get my parts.
Ben, while I still wish to be made anonymous at the present time, I've been extremely dissatisfied with Justin's approach to a sale. He simply doesn't give a shit about anyone else's timelines. I bought $2800 in product from him, and amidst his refusing to come through with promises, holding parts ransom, going through PayPal on my part and getting nowhere, plus going through visa claims, I simply gave up on recovering $313 of promised money, gave in to his stubbornness and told him just to send the remaining parts. On his word I dropped the PayPal claim and he said he'd ship by Friday. Guess what, here's Friday, and he (on the phone) says he rage busted one of the parts "not because of me" and had to order a new one to ship with the box. This is either a lie or serious anger management issues. Further, he "couldn't find" one of the items promised and is sending me something else which, "who cares, because the one I was going to send you was overkill for my build anyways". To me, that was the deal, Fuck what your judgment is on what is and isn't overkill. But I'll play ball for the moment until I finally get my parts in hand, because he's still got my balls in a vise right now but you can be dank sure I'm an irate mother fucker right now. On top of delaying my driving time because of The parts, he's tucked me out of money, delayed parts, changed parts on his judgment without consulting me, and mocked me a number of times over the past three weeks calling me a stupid foreigner and canaduh and more. The comment I CANT WAIT TO SEE KYLE was not just with him, he tested such threats with me as well, and my texts (remember I'm a trained counsellor and conflict management is one of my strong suits) were handled extremely politically correct the entire time, even though he was flying off The handle like a child in a convenience store. I backed up my texts and can forward whatever necessary after this shakes down and I get my parts.
On the side of family issues, I have a dying child and feed him for 10.5 hours (yes, hours) per day, so I know how shitty life can get, but his timelines are simply unacceptable.