Maybe you should go steal a Gran Torino "Toad" and slam that bitch to the grizzound. I am sorry to hear about your grandmother, I really am. That is a sad situation for anyone, especially a youngster. It is difficult to deal with and I hope you just realize that until you started getting offended at all the hating that everyone was really trying to help you and others on the road. You are the one that brought it to this level. Remember, this is a forum where people are going to give advise and opinions. If you don't like that then maybe a forum isn't where you should be, at least not this one.