I did read the last post on the last page, which is why I suggested what I did, because of the fact that you will spend at least twice what you would than doing it my way. If the reason is because you like a lopey idle and a loss of low end power, I just can not understand it. I understand that the sound of a big cammed de at idle is mean sounding, I like that sound also. For an extra 2k, I would live with a nice smooth idle. It gives more of a sleeper effect. As far as what you are leaving out, with BC3 cams you will need cam gears, an absolute must. You will either need bigger injectors, 333's or 370's or an afpr. to run 4bar fuel pressure on the de injectors. You will also need the Mazworks headgasket, unless it is included in the cost of the sleeving, which I don't think it is. Besides porting and polishing, I would recommend a good valve job. If you are going to go that far and spend that much money on the engine, I wouldn't skimp on the cams and go with JWT's for a couple hundred more. I would also recommend a light weight flywheel and a better than stock clutch. The flywheel should help you get into your powerband quicker by revving quicker.
The VE you drove seems like it was probably a stock cammed VE. In the NA world, 200whp and 175whp are worlds apart. The N1 cams vs. stock cams are totally different in the top end. I would suggest trying to take a ride in a N1 VE before you make the leap. Is the price on the sleeve insert including pistons? If not you will need those too. What CR are the pistons you plan on going with. You will also need piston rings if not included. You seem like you have your mind set and hopefully aren't in a hurry to drive the car, since the build you are talking about is going to take some time.
Do you plan to do the assembly yourself? If not you are talking much more money for labor. I would also figure in the cost of new headbolts for the de. Also, I would recommend new gaskets and seals since you are building the engine. Valve seals, crank seals, v/c gasket set, etc. Sounds like you are going to do the DE so good luck with it. Tokes is right, you could always throw on a VE head later and have a killer engine, which if that happens, it will cost more money and more dyno time.
I will leave this alone because I can not understand your logic and it seems that we will never see eye to eye on this one. You must have deep pockets, thats for sure. Lets put it this way, if someone gave me a price on building a house that involved building the house with old style or antique materials the old fashion way, using only hand tools. Windows, siding, paint, insulation, heating, wood etc. that was available in 1925 and it will cost me twice as much to have that old style, feel which I like. Let's say he gave a price of say $400,000.
Another contractor comes in and can build the same house with modern day tools that get the job done quicker, with windows that are insulated better, a heating system that is 3 times as efficent and insulation that would cost me 1/3 of the cost to install and is at least 3 times as efficent than the stuff the other guy is installing. Say he quoted me $250,000 with all newer more efficient products. Since tool devolopment has come a long way since 1925 making building the house take a third of the time, they can charge less with better and more reliable parts. Plumbing, heating, lighting and electrical will be more efficent, cost less to install and the products being installed being so much more efficent and cheaper while offering a better product. Well for me it is a no brainer, I would use the newer, cheaper and more efficent stuff that will be more reliable and cost less money to build and use.. The house would not have than antique feel which is important for some people (like the sr20de), mostly people with money to waste.
The other house would feel newer, be more reliable, save me money up front and in the future because of the efficiency of the newer products and the fact that it takes less man hours to build would mean it would cost me less money up front with lower projected expenses and more creature comforts. Sounds to me like you have your mind made up so I am also trying to help you earlier in this post find the things you missed for the de build. I hope your $5k doller engine that makes 200 or so whp will make you happy. I would choose the newer, cheaper house or engine if you will. You can have what you want and as long as you enjoy it and have the money to do so. Differences are what makes the world interesting. I wish you luck my friend, I'm done with trying to change your mind, just want to see you succeed and enjoy whatever you build.