destroy and rebuild.... i NEVER use an engine hoist.... I drop the motor out the bottom...... and put it in through the bottom..... so much easier to balance the motor..... use 2 hydro jacks.... its soooooo easy this way, no ripping **** out and breaking sensors. Try it.. and u will HAVE to sawzall or grind out part of the washer of the stabilizer bar so the selecter doesnt rub... if u have the linkage bolted up right now.... unbolt it........ start over. it seems u got in over ur head as we all have