I have a boost control solenoid that needs to go in, and I'll control boost with the AEM EMS. But none of that is hooked up yet.
I hold 4 psi for a while until things creep to 9 psi with this green spring.
If you can make over 14 psi of boost elsewhere but can't hold it at redline that's usually a sign the turbo is over it's limit. I don't think any boost control or springs can help. But who knows...
So you have an EBC hooked up to an internal wastegate with only one port right? That is a single port actuator right? Other than adding some preload, or cutting open that actuator and putting in a stronger spring, there's no way to really solve the situation. I would however get a cheap MBC (Vadim has a thread with links to great, cheap, eBay ones that I love) and test with that to make sure it is not an issue with the EBC.
There is probably some cheap wastegate actuator out there that can be had with a much stronger spring to suit your purposes. But I would rule out the EBC and the turbo running out of steam as failure modes first.