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My experiences with detonation start out with the first signs being the plugs. I noticed after some 19-20psi pump gas runs that my plugs would start to misfire. After pulling them out I found that the ground strap had been closed. Ive seen this on many cars now and it seems to be damage from strong detonation. I've seen gaps close, the ceramic break, and the ground strap melt. I actually have a motor here that cracked some ceramics (but didn't swallow them) and the pistons look perfect surprisingly.
Once you see the ground strap start to melt, expect the same from your pistons.
Detonation isn't just an engine killer, pieces of plugs and pistons can come out of the exhaust and damage the turbine as well. I would read the plugs after a hard pull and shut the engine off immediately after passing peak torque. If you peak at 4000rpm, shut it down at 5000rpm and then check the plugs. The Ceramic part won't collect dust, only metal can stick to it. So if you are getting very small spots on the ceramic, you should back it off a bit and check again.
Or you could just buy a knock light and monitor knock yourself. They work, and they save motors.