Heres how it goes and what causes the fitment problems.
The GTi-R T28 turbine housing and the S13 Silvia T25 turbine housing have a slightly different casting with reguards to bolt pattern this is why the Gti-R and the S13 Silvia use the same turbine housing gaskets. This is also the reason the GTi-R o2 housing doesn't fit the Bluebird/Avenir turbine housings without modification.
Bluebird/Avenir/GTi-R, o2 hosuing interchangability - SR20 Forum
Some people swear that there interchangle but they really dont even know is they have a real GTi-R o2 housing, its very easy to tell the difference but some people cant still.