Unfortunately that IS the car scene, as stratton sort of indicated. I would go to cruise in's, locally, and after a few weeks I just couldn't take the BS anymore, so I stopped going. Drugs, Minors in posession of alcohol, kids doing burnouts with one wheel wonders, etc.
There's only a few clubs in El Paso, that don't do stupid things. Either Deanslist.us, or the old school hot rod clubs. They're the mature crowd, that is actually welcomed by El Paso. The kiddie events are shunned, due to the illegal activities that follow.